When I was making my cool down walk home, I looked up and my heart starting pounding. The mist had descended, heavy and low, and it looked like two plumes of smoke were rising directly above my house. I thought about my family still tucked tightly in their beds, and I was scared they were stuck in a fiery house. Until the illusion lifted, and I realized it was just the two trees standing next to each other in my backyard.
I was stuck in a fog for a long time. For most of my life, I've drudged slowly through, not knowing where I was going and what I've wanted to do. I've mistaken one thing for another, only to realize it was something completely different. I've been tricked by the illusion that I couldn't succeed or be who I wanted to be.
For me, the fog was crippling. I'd sit down instead of walking through it, looking at it as a barrier instead of just a temporary roadblock, a small inconvenience. I've lived a lot of my life thinking woe is me, if only I could do this or that, if only I could write, if only I could make something of myself. I failed to see I could remove myself from the fog by acting instead of just writhing in the pain of my existence.
For a long time, I had dreams. I had dreams I felt were unattainable. I was negative about not being able to write for a living and not having hair and not having enough money. I was always focused on what I didn't have and not on what I do have. I ALWAYS wanted more. The fog of disbelief kept me from moving forward, from putting one foot in front of the other and removing myself from its heaviness.
But I realized the only way to get where you want in life and to do what you want, to reach your dreams and to reach your goals, is to strive for them. So many people walk through this life living in their dreams, but never TRY to achieve them.
I'm finally seeing some results from my writing, because I write every day now. I don't say I wish I was a writer and never write a sentence. I say, I wish I was a writer and I have a goal to write every day. It's the same way with any goal in your life. If you set goals and you start acting you can remove yourself from the dismalness of the fog too. Even when it seems like nothing can change and everything is horrible baby steps will get you where you're going: into the light where nothing can hold you back.